Why is it that we have judgment? Someone else’s life does not affect yours, not really.
This is the atmosphere we grew up in – one where many other types of humans were wrong, bad, evil, mistaken – you name it and someone else embodied it. In order for you to overcome the very core of duality, you immersed yourself in that thinking. You learned from the best. It is not a bad thing but a real thing – your formative years were spent hearing this type of comparison continuously.
Unity and oneness were not concepts you heard about.
You have come so very far. Now it is upon you to love all others, to be with them and not fall into patterns of duality.
There is no us and them. Notice the alternate forms as you would a passing cloud – let them go.