To be truly free, it means not just withholding judgment, but NOT HAVING ANY JUDGMENT. Do you see the difference?
It is a reflection that you are seeing and judging, a reflection of you. You are harboring many fears and using them to keep you anchored, firmly, in sadness or pain or disillusionment or whatever egoic emotion you are addicted to.
The truth about agape is that once you know it, it is not a fleeting emotion. It is a feeling that is understood and felt for everyone, regardless of how close or distant you are from them. It is felt for them all seamlessly because, (and here is the crucial part), it is felt for you the same way.
It is like breath, you do not think about where your next one is coming from, yet you do not question it either. Your next breath, or the source of your next breath, exists. It is here, now, with you, around you – unless you block it, prevent it, prevent access to it – it is always here for you.
Love is the same. It is the source of everything and is evidenced in every encounter. This is truth.
This is what you are, despite every objection you raise. This is what I am, regardless of your opinion about me. Once you let go of your opinions, you will see as Source sees.
The one that you are – is love. The one that you are – is truth.
How about loving yourself up instead of beating yourself up?
To love yourself without condition. It means you are good enough. You make the grade. You have succeeded. There is nothing else you have to do to be loved. You are worthy right now. Just the fact that you have shown up is enough.
What is holding you back from flat out adoration? Is it something you’ve done? Something you haven’t done? Something you thought about doing? Something you’ve said?
Ok. So, you did. Shame is not a useful emotion. It is keeping you right there; wherever you were when you did this thing you are beating yourself up about. It is time to move on. Let it go.
You used whatever information you had at the time to do this thing that you did. You have different information now. It is time to do something new - from a new place, a pro-active place, rather than a re-active place.
Your point of power is in this moment; it is not in yesterday. All that you actually have is right now. Use it to love yourself.
Lavishly and ridiculously love yourself. Smile when you see you in the mirror. Wave with joy - as if you are meeting someone you can’t wait to be with! It is YOU! You are here! You look great! We are so happy you came to join us!
You know, we’ve been waiting for you to notice your magnificence. WE have always seen it; you have been wearing those dark shades and didn’t notice. You are brilliantly, wonderfully and perfectly imperfect, just like us! We are all here to celebrate our collective selves. Beauty is an assemblage of imperfections, and damn, we are beautiful.
We are one, and as you step into your power, forgive and love yourself, I do as well. Hurry up.
Allowing someone to “be”, without having to fix anything or make them feel better, this is love. Love does not mean forcing the other to stop feeling whatever it is they are feeling. This, in fact, makes YOU feel better, not them.
Love allows the other their pain, anguish, joy; any possible emotion is ok, there is no good or bad. What makes YOU feel uncomfortable, you immediately work to stop. It is ok to be uncomfortable; it is part of our life here in this third dimension.
We are all here to experience all of it – each emotion and event brings certain feelings to the surface and we tend to label them as good, bad, uncomfortable, and comfortable. In truth they are merely alternative vibrations – they differ from the status quo and so we notice them. It is our subsequent association, those events we attach TO them that create our opinions. It we attach something we do not feel went well, we will attempt to stop it in its tracks for our loved ones.
This is not done to control them really; it springs from our love for them. It is our misinterpretation of the feeling that causes us to step in and attempt to make everyone feel better.
The feeling springs from within. You will never know precisely what the other is feeling. You can only be sure what you, yourself are feeling.
The ultimate loving action therefore is allowing, witnessing, and accepting. It matters not what your loved one is feeling or expressing, you will stand there and love them anyway. Their truth is theirs. You don’t have to like it or agree yet it is not about you. It is about them.
Love them enough to allow them their anger and pain; they do not need correcting. They are in the place they are at this moment because of their current focus. It is not your job to re-adjust their lenses. You are here to love them. You do.
Listening without comment can be the supreme act of love. Love them as they stand, right now, no exceptions, no corrections.
It is time, perhaps, to consider in a real way, the idea that “disclosure” has occurred. We’ve seen ships in the sky that are not conventional aircraft and more than a handful clearly do not come from here.
There are stories of government and/or military engagement with off world beings. There are other accounts from some of us who claim to have spoken to them for many years.
What does it all mean? It sounds like disclosure has occurred. We do not need any more you tube videos or history channel specials. The evidence is everywhere. If we accept what is immediately in front of us, we will realize that it is not time to wait for disclosure to be announced, it is time to decide what we are going to do next.
These beings from other places are not gods. They are other versions of us. Meeting them will be sort of like meeting new neighbors, only from much further away. They have advanced technology. They mostly look like us. Their perspective will be different. Imagine a conversation with someone from another planet, because you very well may be doing just that.
It is time to lose our fear and suspicion and dependence on some outside “authority” to tell us what is going on. It is already going on. Now we need to consider in a real way what it will mean to share the planet with beings from someplace else. The whole notion of borders and nationalities sort of vanishes.
We need not wait to hear the “spin” the media/government will put on this event. We are ready now to live it and understand the truth. We can only consider it because we really have no idea, yet. The Occupy movement has moved beyond Wall Street; let’s take it off of this world.
Everyone’s included. We are all going. This shift is a move for the planet and everyone who chooses to remain on her at that moment. There are no requirements in order to make the cut. You have made it. You are here now and that is the only thing that is necessary.
It makes sense to “get your house in order” as we move through this time. Things are different. The overwhelming energy on the planet is one of collaboration and unity, not one of polarity and “us against them”. The ideas we have held about right and wrong, good and bad, better and worse will not work as well anymore. The shift will be easier if we begin to move towards love.
The only work necessary to prepare is internal. You alone know where you stand on every issue. We are moving out of a time where we expect to be told by some outside authority what to believe in, and what to do in order to be acceptable and to get ahead. The time now is one of empowerment. How you proceed from here on out is up to you.
There is no “judge” deciding your fate here. Only you will determine your destination. The move from third to a higher dimension will be your choice and you will make it from your deepest core. You will decide by yourself. All by yourself.
Choose love and know that you have chosen perfectly for this life you are living. Just be love.
Regardless of what it looks like, love is always true. Love is identified by what it feels like, not what it looks like. We are love and stand as its source. We’ve been searching for it everywhere but the one place it exists. It begins in our own heart.
Love does not show up in our lives when someone else says “I love you”. Love is what we are. It exists because we do. To recognize it in this very dense third dimension, filled with contrast and polarity, can be a challenge.
Start with you. These beliefs, attitudes, expectations, requirements and judgments are ideas we hold about ourselves. It is time to let them go. They are firmly rooted in right, wrong, good and bad. There is none of that in love. It’s all love. You are worthy, deserving and uniquely suited to love. You are the perfect expression of love in physical form.
Feel wondrous about yourself! Appreciate your own magnificence! There is no reason to wait to love you. The time is today. Love yourself now!
You don’t need to look or act a certain way before you can love yourself. You don’t need to do a certain thing in order to prove that you love yourself. Just love yourself. Without condition.
Once you accept who you are, the rest is easy. There is no one harder on yourself than you. Listen to the way you talk to yourself – would you speak those words aloud to someone else? I think not.
Accept yourself without condition and go one step further – celebrate yourself. Give yourself the gift of appreciation. You, who understand deeply every part of yourself, are divine. You have no imperfections. In a world of infinite possibilities you are merely one of them.
You have your own way of looking, being, acting and speaking. They are uniquely yours. You always do what you believe is the best thing to do in every situation. It is.
How things turn out and are received by others has more to do with what the “others” believe about themselves than you. It always comes back to you.
Love who you are today without any reservation. You stand without requirements. Right now – you are perfection. Right now – you are love. It is ok to love yourself.
Be the shift. It starts with you. It begins within. Don’t wait for your lover or family or friends or country to love you first. There are no standards to comply to. You have met and exceeded them all. It is time to believe your most cherished secret – that you are good and you are capable of achieving your wildest dreams and that you are loved.
You are. There is no one more perfect than you. There is no one more deserving of love than you. You are loved beyond your greatest imaginings.
This shift takes place in our hearts. Love yourself without any hesitation at all. Just begin, right now, to say “yes”!
This is the Shift of the Ages. The world that awaits you is beautiful beyond description and it’s available right now. Be the Shift. Just love yourself.
To live without judgment is to live without fear. It begins within. You are on a circular route and repeatedly enter and exit at different points.
It has taken many lifetimes, as existence holds infinite possibilities and this is merely one of them.
It is not the only one or the final one or the most important one, for they are judgments. Every moment in each lifetime holds equal value.