Once you understand deeply the truth of your physical existence, “blame” is a foreign concept. In a life that is based on polarity, where there exists good, bad, right, wrong and “other”; blame makes sense.
You are stepping out of that world. You are tiptoeing into oneness. It is a delicate walk and easy to lose your way. Your life is filled with “others”.
These “others” are mirrors of you. This is truth.
Blame is a fruitless exercise. It yields only self hatred. This is not a place for one such as you. These “others” are merely reflections. Blaming them is akin to blaming the glass mirror for your appearance. The mirror has nothing to do with what you look like. It merely shows you what you are capable of seeing that day.
Some days you look great. Others, not so much. Do you switch mirrors? Sometimes. I know a woman who refuses to use one of those intensely magnifying make-up mirrors because she doesn’t want to know! A bit fuzzy is fine.
You will see and focus on what you choose. We are all reflections for each other, some blurry and soft, others sharp and clear.
This may not help when someone has done something that directly, specifically and (in your opinion) negatively impacted you. In that moment, that rush of emotion and fear that courses through you feels very foreign. It feels like someone else did it to you.
They have done something, yes. You feel something, yes. But just as the mirror’s image did not make you handsome or beautiful, the other’s action did not make you angry or fearful.
Oneness is truth and blame cannot exist inside of it anywhere. If there is something you don’t like, work to change it. Blame and anger immobilize us. We are here to do more than that.
It is time for us to understand that emotions exist and we are choosing to either prolong them or let them go. Our reactions are self-defined. We can choose them consciously and then deliberately move on.
We are the only ones capable of moving into oneness. No one else is going to do it for us. As we individually examine our habits of polarity, we strengthen the whole that is us. We must be fearless and unconditionally loving in every case. It is no ones fault. There is no one to blame. It is the journey we have chosen.
We are the ones we are waiting for.