The root cause of unhappiness is lack of love; lack of self-love. The way to take care of that is to take care of you. No one else can. Until you do, any other relationship will be icing on the cake. What is making up the cake called you?
Are you allowing second-hand ingredients that have spoiled? What sorts of things contribute to you?
You are in this dream and you cannot escape that. This is your focus. From here you move to the next dimension. What that looks like will be what that looks like. You are taking yourself there.
Do you fully understand that the shift will not change who you are internally? The you that you are experiencing now is who will be there in the next dimension.
A shift, a dimensional shift of an entire planet, will change the frequency within which your body exists – it will not change what is in your heart.
You are here to progress through life – to come to a truth that can set you free and propel you forward.
Loving who you are doesn’t mean always declaring or demanding what you want and settling for nothing less. There is no less or more; when you are fulfilled you stop expecting another to fill you up.
You will never ask another to be or do something they don’t want to because the other is you. Relationships are a dance and at different times each of the partners takes the lead. Take turns giving in and you will find yourself enjoying the dance much more. You might even become a spectacular dancer.